Break ups can be one of the worst experiances a person can live through. They cause pain to the heart, it causes some people to break down and just let go. But althought Break Ups are stereotyped as something very bad, it can also be good. Allow me to explain...
When you're with someone, it feels like nothing else matters. Every single time they are a round and they hold you in there arms, it can be the best feeling; a feeling of love and security and acceptence. As the rules go, everything comes to an end eventually. And that brings us to the break up part... When you break up, you can learn alot. After all the tears and the dozens of Ben & Jerrys ice cream cartons on the floor, you learn to accept the fact the relationship is over. You can look back on all the times youve spent with that significant other, and realize what went wrong. Regardless if it was your fault or his/hers, something clearly went wrong. Wich is what brings me to my point; Think about the relationship. Think of the good times and bad and see what was bad. Because in the end, you can improve your knowledge on what type of guy you want.
Small Tip : Second Chances are always good to give, but if you and someone had a very bad break up, no matter how much you love him/her, its not worth the risk to give them a second chance and get hurt. Learn to be sellfish and think about Y-O-U .
Point Blank ; learn to learn from a break up. Believe in yourself and that everything will be okay, because if we never go through breakups, we will never truely find "The One". Good things take time, so throw away that love watch and just sit back, relax, and live your lifee !


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